How To Attract A Shy Man : 5 Steps That Work
Some guys are overly confident while others are too shy to face you.
If you like a guy but his shyness tends to get in his way, then there are things that you need to consider seriously. With this type of guy, you need to appear more available. Often times, you’ll be the taking the lead if you want to attract him further and get him into a relationship with you.
However, in every move that you make towards him, you must make sure that he responds positively. If he isn’t, then you need to get out of that fantasy before you’ll find yourself stuck in a place where you’re in love with someone who’s not into you.
Now, here’s a list of things that you can do to crack his shyness.
1. Go out with him as friends
Shy men are confident when they’re with their friends and family. But when they’re with women, they tend to get intimidated. To erase his shyness when he’s with you, take the time out and spend time together doing friendly things. This will help you get to know him more while he’ll learn to slowly drop his guard.
2. Be with him when he’s engaged in his interests
For instance, if he likes sports, go watch and see him play. When he’s in his element, his charisma and self-confidence are very high. He’ll feel empowered to talk to you, i.e. if he’s interested in you.
3. Praise him
Giving him sincere compliment will boost his self-esteem. Whenever he does things that you really admire, let him know that and praise him for what he did. By boosting his confidence, he’ll more likely to open to you and talk to you more often. He’s not fishing for compliment but when you do praise him, you’re actually building trust in your relationship.
4. Ask for help with anything
Men like helping women. That’s their nature. You can ask him to fix his computer, your door or your bike. If he’s interested in you, he’ll drop everything and visit your house to fix those things. While he’s fixing things inside your house, go and ask him what he’s doing. You’ll see that he’ll talk more than he normally does. When he’s in this mode, he is more likely to talk and share his life with you. He may even share his true feelings about you.
5. Know what he likes
When he’s already in his talking mode, you should start asking him about his interests, likes and dislikes. But don’t ask in-depth question like his family, his past girlfriends, etc. Instead, try to make the conversation lighter. For instance, you can ask him about the food that he likes or the fun activities that he wants to engage in. This is the time when you’re already opening your door too much. If he doesn’t respond to that, then move on. He’s really not into you.
It’s not that all difficult to bring out the best in those shy guys. With these flirting tips, you’ll be able to make him ask you for a date. When he does ask you out, you must make sure that you don’t make him feel intimated.
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