How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone With A Guy: 6 Easy Steps To Escape
Oh, yeah, the friend zone. It’s a place that almost every person doesn’t want to be in. Many people considered it as a wasteland. It’s a place where you get along with this person and see a potential that the two of you could be something more. Unfortunately, that person only sees you as his buddy.
But fear no more. You can move away from that wasteland. This post will teach you how to do so. This friend zone usually happens when a guy considers you as his trusted friend but not as his potential mate. Then again, you can escape from those clutches.
Here’s a list of things that you can try to get out of the friend zone and turn him into your boyfriend.
1. Increase flirtations
Being in a friend zone requires you to listen to him all the time and help him solve some of his problems. But if you do want to get out of that zone, you need to be touchy feely. Do flirt with him. It doesn’t mean that you have to talk dirty or have sex with him. Just do girly flirty things and they can do wonders.
2. Know how you got into that situation
If you understand how he became your friend in the first place, then it’ll be easier for you to get out of that zone. You may need to change his perception about you. It may be difficult but it’s the only way to do it if you really want him to be your boyfriend and not just his confidante.
3. Show him your other side
But make sure that it’s a good side of you. Breaking out of a friend zone needs drastic change. If you always wear athletic clothing, then why not try dressing up and wear stylish clothes. You can also talk to him about “dating” so you can present to your opinion about your current relationship with him. It might open his mind about it.
4. Stop being a good friend to him
If you want to get out of that zone, then start acting as his girlfriend. Let him realize that picking him up from the airport or washing his clothes are privileges that you only offer to special someone.
5. Use your advantage
You’re his friend and you know his likes and dislikes. Thus, you know what type of girl he likes. Because you’re his close friend, you can influence him about his relationship. Make him change his mind about what an ideal dating partner is. From there, you can shift your direction and make yourself his ideal partner to date.
6. Tell him how you feel
Sometimes, a guy doesn’t know what to say it. He might be hiding special feelings for you but he’s afraid you might dump him. For that reason, it’s essential that you express your desire and let him know that you want to be more than just a friend. This can be difficult. But it’s the only way to help you stop wondering what the real score between you two is.
But getting out of the friend zone requires proper timing. If he’s involved with someone, then it’s better to hide your feelings from him than causing damage to the relationship you already have with him.
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